Dag 531 Uit je zelf op papier!

Uit je zelf op papier heeft een dubbele betekenis. Wat in je zelf leeft! Hoe je betekenis toegekend hebt aan je ervaringen. De manier waarop jouw dagelijkse herinnering je ondersteuning biedt, belemmerd. Maar in iedergeval beïnvloedt. Hetgeen jij zelf bepaalt.

Uit je zelf. Jouw dagelijkse beleving, uiten op papier! De manier waarop je denkt, handeld en beweegt. Houding en gedrag, de manier waarop jij je uit, specifiek volgens jouw opvattingen.

Volgens de taal, de woorden van interpretatie, hetgeen kleurt jouw vaak nog onbewuste automatische observatie.

Echter, zodra je helder en eerlijk begint met Zelfreflectie, dan ondersteun jij jezelf op weg naar zelfredzaamheid. Je neemt de touwtjes in handen en bent eigenaar van je keuzes.

Stand as the slave that you are and have allowed yourself to become.

observatie een observatie vind plaats met een bepaald doel voor ogen.

Een objectieve waarneming van gedragingen of gebeurtenissen met een bepaald doel voor ogen. Dit doel kan onbewust gekozen zijn. Echter hetgeen de keuze voor een handeling of gedraging in de eerste plaats heeft bepaald, bevat bepaalde informatie.

Bepaalde enkele betekenissen van bepaald ‘ik bepaalde met een door mij bepaald doel voor ogen’


Bepaald: Fixe, echt, vast, omlijnd, beslist, stellig, begrensd, positief, nauwkeurig, aangewezen, vastgesteld, gedetermineerd, onvoorwaardelijk.


Uit je zelf betekenis: aan het licht brengen hetgeen je voor ogen hebt. Sta als jezelf, als de slaaf die je bent en jezelf hebt toegestaan te worden.

Te worden als hetgeen je jezelf hebt toegestaan en aanvaard te zijn als de betekenis die je aan taal en woorden toekend.

Word iemand waar je tevreden over bent. Desteni helpt en ondersteunt jouw om jezelf te ondersteunen.

Day 522 What I think is right.

‘My Acceptance and Allowed thinking insinuates -‘I think I will be what others want me to be because my perception and observations are correct.’ But: ‘Which influence has my significance at my images which manifest my world?

What influence does have my meaning what I project on my images that manifest and represents my world?

‘Expressing my inner world also changes the way I look at myself. It can be a relief to write something off of you. Sometimes you notice that something is bothering you more than you thought when you told about it. Only when you give expression to what is going on inside, you will gain a clearer awareness of your thoughts and changes in mood.

So What can we learn from people who have not learned how to communicate their needs?

Be who you needed when you were younger.

This not learned how to communicate my needs became a decision I once made with a reason. We valued our needs as symbols and representations.

I realize see and understand that I Not learned how to communicate my needs.
I realize see and understand that I manifest Needs that can be positive.
I realize see and understand that I manifest Needs that can be negative. The first steps one has to do is become aware that you manifest inner need.

I realize see and understand that I feel anxious and insecure in contacts with other people. I have little faith in myself to start something alone such as telling what I want to achieve. Because I’m not sure about my abilitie to communicate and stand for what I want to achieve. So I unconsciously made a choice. I Stopt telling others: ‘what do I need!’

When I’m going back to my life as a child. I grow up as a child in a family in which not everything runs smoothly. So I got stuck between my own needs and the needs of my educators. It changed my feeling and thinking about myself and the world.

In general I’ve been treated Underestimated.

When I asked or told something what people criticized with their eyes or spoken words or in the same moment decide that they start laughing about me (what I was needed) and physically looked away. So I started thinking I’m not get the attention I need.

They underestimate me. Because they laugh when I was vulnerable, because I told them what I needed. If people ask me a lot, I experience them as nagging. People who are enthusiastic and ask a lot of questions are people who nag and exaggerates.

In general I feel insecure, lonely and disappointed. Insecure because people start laughing and look into another direction. I guess They behave This way because I am not important enough to them. I’m not sure but it became my belief.

People did not listening and are not interested in what I feel or need. I am not sure but it became my belief. So because they ignored me I did not trusted myself any longer to share my needs, because I was disappointed in the honesty of people.

Because of my assumptions I did not allowed myself to direct my physical body and Beingness. They (the people in my environment) showed me different appearances. They showed me different appearances to which they attached the same values.

Read Victor’s blog: https://dreamersjourneytolife.wordpress.com/2017/10/16/day-444-insecurity-not-seeing-me/amp/

That is why I feel lonely. People never where honestly interested in how I feel about the things which where and are important to me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I feel lonely because People never where honestly interested in how I feel about the things which where and are important to me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I focus at others and blame them and behave like a victim which is interested in that others show me how I feel, use it as a excuse to walk not the things which where and are important to me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself Because of my assumptions I did not allowed myself to direct my physical body and Beingness.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that did not direct myself physically and as my Beingness because the people in my environment showed me different appearances which made me think insecure.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I have start thinking insecure because people in my life showed me different appearances to which they attached the same values.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I blamed others that they never really listened to me because I didn’t told them what I needed and longing for. If and when I am not communicate what I need, I Stop and Breath.

I realize see and understand that I Not learned how to communicate my needs.
I realize see and understand that I manifest Needs that can be positive.
I realize see and understand that I manifest Needs that can be negative. I realize see and understand that The first steps one has to do and make by writing is become aware what is the startingpoint of our accepted and allowed inner needs.

I realize see and understand that I feel anxious and insecure in contacts with other people. I have little faith in myself to start something alone such as telling what I want to achieve. Because I’m not sure about my abilitie to communicate and stand for what I want to achieve. So I unconsciously made a choice. I Stopt telling others: ‘what do I need!’

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to represent my reality by creating a world that takes shape in a certain language I do not tell anyone else what I needed and longing for because they will ignore me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think there is no access to reality outside of these representations or symbolizations.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I have accepted being like and seeing as language representations or symbolisations.The social embedding of language and that of speech determine my being in a fundamental and radical way.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that my being is determined in a fundamental and radical way by the group, by the other, by the language, I am in the grip of it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that I mainly live as the object of my mind since feelings, emotions and actions in me depend on my ideas, only as like my language feeds me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself that the image I sketched of myself as a living being who is able to explain the world and myself and thus have to remember and not forget that I have the possibility of self-determination.

I commit myself that I have to become aware what is the startingpoint of my accepted and allowed inner needs and translate them into correction Living words statements ‘What’s best for me is best for All Life’.